I thought when you got to middle age, things would be easier, clearer, with fewer decisions. No! It all starts with the you-won’t- bounce-back-forever thing. Yes, this is a common refrain from middle-aged people. You aren’t going to be able to bounce back like you used to, so you better get retired and get out there!
At the same time we are also told that everyone is living longer so you should plan your money until your 99 years old. Back to the “won’t bounce” crowd-they say you are only going to be able to dodder around until you’re maybe 70. So, does that mean I will be sitting in a chair for 30 years watching Jeopardy? That sounds awful. Or, you should assume you will live to 99- but did you hear about poor fill-in-the-blank? Gone in the prime of life, never got to enjoy the goals he or she hoped to achieve one day. Well, that sounds awful as well.
My other favorite is the email that has been going around for years written by a 94 year old full of witty life advice. Live life with no regrets! (not possible) Eat chocolate! ( I don’t like chocolate). Work less (maybe). Drink wine and be merry! ( I am good with this one) and it goes on from there. I don’t think this author actually existed, it is probably just some early form of AI.
Eat right, but there is no consensus on what right is. Get enough sleep, but also get up early to meet the day. Touch grass-I don’t even know what that means. Exercise, whatever you are doing is not enough! Be social it is critical to staying connected, but also meditate in solitude.
There is so much input that how can you possibly make sense of it all and figure out what works for you? A steady firehose of information from podcasters, Tik Tok and Instagram influencers. There are books and articles, where does it end?
So what does this have to do with boating? Is this where I tell you to start now on your boating dreams before you become poor fill-in-the-blank? Nope, go boating to get away from all the noise about how to live your life. Boats offer escape! After all, why touch grass when you can touch water?
Thus endeth the rant-thanks for listening.
